In this journey of life, we meet a lot of people. Out of those people that we meet and interact with, only few becomes our friend, out of that bunch maybe few would become good friends and among those good friends we will have two or three people that we consider very close to us, I call them MERE ANMOL RATAN, literally translated to MY PRICELESS JEWELS.
Yesterday, I was thinking about my “priceless jewels” like how come among all the people I have met, they were the one who became my priceless jewels and at that moment I realised that there are three kinds of people:
i) Set No. 1: People that add something to your life, who helps you grow and makes you look at things with a different & positive perspective. When you only see negativity, they are the one who show you the bright side. They are there for you whenever you need them. They are the one who you just see and get inspired from.
ii) Set No. 2: People that take something of you- they won’t have much to contribute in your growth but they will take everything that you have to offer. They will not motivate you or support you even when you need them. They take your energy and peace of mind.
iii) Set No. 3: People who neither add something to your life nor take something. You see them often, though they are not that close to you but they are around. Example can be- your classmates, colleagues, flatmates etc.
My precious jewles definetly belong to Set No.1 and I am grateful for them. We don’t talk daily and its fine because we all understand each other. The bond, it just stays the same even when we speak after few weeks.
Recently, a person walked into my life and I didnt know that people can be this selfless. When I say I met an ANGEL IN DISGUISE, I literally mean she is the sweetest, calmest and sorted person I have ever seen. Her way of looking at things is so inspiring and the way she speaks and interacts with others as well stays the same. She is the same with everyone.
And guess what today is her birthday and I wanted to post this as a token of respect and to show her that I am grateful to have her as my roomate. She literally wakes me up at 4:30 AM everyday and then she goes back to sleep (just because I can’t hear the alarm, she does that). I couldn’t have asked for a better roommate. Thank you so much PUSH.
Wishing you a very Happy Birthday, keep smiling the way you do, it radiates a lot of positivity and I have to admit that I have a lot to learn from you.
P.S. I haven’t wished her yet. She gave me a chocolate when I was leaving for office and I was like what is it for? I dont like sweet and she said, just like that I am giving and she handed over me the chocolate. Going to surprise her tonight.
Happy birthday
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Happy birthdayy
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Waiting for your thought 236 😁
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I don’t think I agree with your points. But to say my bit I’ll take up your point 1
You are saying that people who add value to your like or put you in right path, generally we get angry on these kind of people and don’t follow up on them. It’s very difficult for a person to be around you, lend a hand all the time or soo to say most of the time. There are multiple people who helps you at different time soo if that one person doesn’t help you, you should go ahead and label them.
Also my above point is very superficial and I too don’t agree with that but those are some counter points that I can think of.
My main point was we shouldn’t label people into different sets based on our finite knowledge. Same person can act differently, help you differently, sense differently in opposing situations.
Also, if you have written this generally then it’s fine, but this should not be the way .
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Thank you for the comment but I still feel that we make friends and have friends who are different from other friends (mainly because individuals are different and unique). We might not label it but if you think deep down why are we guys even friends you will understand how this labelling comes into play. Of course we dont label people first and then become their friends but after we have made friends, in our head we would have labelled them.
Also, we have many friends for say on instagram (if you consider them as friend) but in the end you will have your close set of people that you can call Anmol Ratan and precious jewels. We can’t expect them to be with us all the time but when in need, you go to them first.
Hope I made myself clear. If not, I respect your thought on it.
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